VESTA has created a user-friendly guide for people who have experienced sexual violence. In this guide, we cover topics like definitions, the way the Canadian criminal code outlines terms, myths, important details regarding reporting and court proceedings, links to 24/7 crisis services, and more. Download the full handbook or individual chapters as needed. Our hope is that our straightforward guide is able to bring clarity to some of the common questions people may have surrounding sexual violence. We welcome you to provide feedback and hope that you are able to use this guide to take back your power and make informed decisions that are right for you and your situation.
Chapter 1: What Is Sexual Violence?
Chapter 2: What About Consent?
Chapter 3: Myths & Facts About Sexual Violence
Chapter 4: How Do I Tell Family, Friends or My Employer?
Chapter 5: What Are My Options?
Chapter 6: Barriers to Reporting
Chapter 7: Reporting – When, Where & How
Chapter 9: Pre-Trial Proceedings
Chapter 10: The Criminal Trial
Chapter 11: Where Can I Go For Help?
Legal Disclaimer: This handbook provides general information that is intended, but not guaranteed, to be correct and up-to-date. Vesta Social Innovation Technologies does not assume any responsibility for actions or non-actions taken by people who have used this handbook for information, and no one shall be entitled to a claim for detrimental reliance on any information provided or expressed.
[wpdiscuz-feedback id=”x207keoi24″ question=”Please leave your feedback on this post.” opened=”0″][/wpdiscuz-feedback]After a crime such as sexual assault has occurred, you may find yourself struggling with how to open up about your story to people in your life. When and if you decide to tell people, here are our suggestions on how to approach such a sensitive subject.
Remember – your story is always up to you. You alone decide how much detail you want to disclose. Just because someone asks questions doesn’t mean you have to answer them.
You might say…
You may want to tell all of your family at the same time or choose the person you feel most comfortable with and tell them first to get their support. You may want to disclose everything or only some details.
You might say…
Before disclosing a sexual assault to someone, it is important to consider if you can trust the person. Here are some ways you can tell:
Also, think about whether this individual is likely to respond in a supportive way. Are they likely to believe you? Can they be someone who provides you with emotional support? Do they know the perpetrator? These factors may impact how they respond to your disclosure.
Resources:
Signal for help
Telling your partner of your Sexual Assault
When to tell a new relationship about your abuse, assault
When it comes to sexual violence, can you separate the myths from the facts? Here are some misconceptions and the truth about sexual violence.
| MYTH: Many people believe that sexual violence won’t happen to them or someone they know, but that’s not true. | FACT: It doesn’t matter about your social status, race, or background – sexual assault can happen to anyone. However, there are people who are more at risk of experiencing assault, including people with disabilities, those who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community, especially those who are trans. Some people believe that sexual violence is committed by strangers, but again, most sexual assaults (82%) are committed by someone you know and trust. |
| MYTH: Sexual assaults happen in public, and in dark alleys. | FACT: Most often, assaults happen in homes and private places. |
| MYTH: If someone is passed out (from drugs, alcohol, etc.), it is okay to have sex with them. | FACT: If anyone is unconscious or incapable of consenting due to the use of alcohol or drugs, they can’t legally give consent. Without consent, it is sexual assault. |
| MYTH: If the assault wasn’t reported it doesn’t constitute sexual assault. | FACT: A sexual assault is a sexual assault, and only 10% of known occurrences are reported to the police. People sometimes think that survivors make up stories and tell lies about sexual violence, but the number of false reports for sexual assaults are very low and consistent with the number of false reports for other crimes in Canada. Sexual assault carries such a stigma that many survivors prefer not to report for fear of being re-victimized. |
| MYTH: If an individual didn’t scream or fight back, this means they’ve given consent. | FACT: Being afraid or paralyzed with fear is most likely the reason. Often people believe that the perpetrator will become more violent if you struggle, and if you’re under any influence, this may also prevent resisting. There is a widely held belief that if someone isn’t crying or visibly upset, then it’s not a big deal. The fact is each person responds to trauma differently – they may cry or stay calm. They may be silent or get very angry. Their behaviour isn’t an indicator of their experience. It is important not to judge anyone by how they respond to the assault. |
| MYTH: If there is no physical harm on the victim, then it wasn’t sexual assault. | FACT: Lack of physical injury doesn’t mean that the person didn’t use threat by a weapon or other coercive actions that don’t leave physical harm, but psychological harm. |
| MYTH: If the act of rape didn’t occur, it means it wasn’t sexual violence. | FACT: Any unwanted sexual contact is considered to be sexual violence. A survivor can be severely affected by all forms of sexual violence, including unwanted fondling, rubbing, kissing, or other sexual acts. Many forms of sexual violence involve no physical contact, such as stalking or distributing intimate visual recordings. All of these acts are serious and can be damaging. |
| MYTH: If someone can’t give chronological details, or there are gaps in the telling of the sexual violence, then it didn’t occur. | FACT: Shock, fear, embarrassment, and distress can impair memory. Many survivors attempt to minimize or forget the details of the assault as a way of coping with trauma. Memory loss is also common when alcohol and/or drugs are involved. |
| MYTH: Those with disabilities don’t experience sexual assault. | FACT: People with disabilities are at a high risk of experiencing sexual violence or assault. In fact, they are twice as likely to be assaulted than able-bodied people. |
| MYTH: You can’t sexually assault your spouse because you’re in a relationship. | FACT: Sexual assault can occur in a married or other intimate partner relationship. A partner still needs consent to engage in any and all sexual activities. |
Source:
Sexual Violence Survivor’s Handbook – Chapter 3: Myths & Facts About Sexual Violence
Are you considering pursuing justice through the legal system but don’t know where to begin? You’re not alone. The legal justice system can be confusing and difficult to navigate. But there are services available that can help you by providing free, independent legal advice. Sometimes you just need to talk to a professional and know your options before going forward. Our Legal Aid section provides individually sourced legal services and specialized programs for survivors of domestic abuse, sexual assault, and other forms of violence. These services are available remotely or in-person based on region. If you have any questions, we encourage you to visit the websites provided to learn more.
Established by the Sexual Assault Support Centre of Waterloo Region, this program supports survivors of sexual violence throughout their legal process. From start to finish, the Sexual Violence Legal Advocacy program offers a variety of services to assist those seeking justice, including case management, assistance with documents, court accompaniment, and more.
This is a free service open to all genders. Visit their website below to learn more and access their intake form today.
Do you know of any free legal services for survivors of gender-based violence? Let us know.
Legal Disclaimer:
Our website provides general information that is intended, but not guaranteed, to be correct and up-to-date. The information is not presented as a source of legal advice. You should not rely, for legal advice, on statements or representations made within the website or by any externally referenced Internet sites. If you need legal advice upon which you intend to rely in the course of your legal affairs, consult a competent, independent attorney. Vesta Social Innovation Technologies does not assume any responsibility for actions or non-actions taken by people who have visited this site, and no one shall be entitled to a claim for detrimental reliance on any information provided or expressed.
Everyone has different ways of healing; there is no one “right way.” Sometimes we find comfort in those around us, and sometimes we simply find comfort in our own homes. While the obvious solution when seeking justice may be to rely on legal institutions, such as prisons or courts, that may be difficult for many. Another option you may not be aware of is restorative justice.
Restorative justice (RJ) focuses on repairing the harm caused by looking and thinking about crime using a holistic, collaborative, and humanizing approach. It views crime not only as a violation of the law but also of people, relationships, and communities.
RJ can be requested by victims of a crime; however most programs require the voluntary participation of the offender and that they accept responsibility for their actions. This method of justice holds the offenders responsible for their actions by providing parties affected by the crime an opportunity to address their needs and to seek a resolution that can amend the wrongdoing, thereby preventing further crime, harm, and victimization.
When effectively used, restorative justice can lead to better outcomes for victims and offenders, and reduce the number of cases that go to trial.
Restorative justice is an alternate model of the justice process where victims, communities and offenders affected by an injustice have an opportunity to discuss how they have been impacted and decide what should be done to repair the harm. Within the RJ model, offenders are asked to acknowledge their crime and attempt to atone for it.
While coming from the same background as restorative justice, transformative justice (TJ) seeks to change the larger social structure as well as the personal structure of those involved. Transformative justice wants to inform victims with answers as to why they were victimized, recognizing the wrong that has occurred, providing restitution, and establishing peace.
Both TJ & RJ concepts are essentially reaching for the same goal. Transformative justice (TJ) is a political framework and approach for responding to violence, harm and abuse. Restorative justice is an approach focused on repairing harm that’s occurred in a community by using techniques that involve all parties; the victim, the offender, their social networks, justice agencies, and the community.
As with any decision, it is important to explore which option works for you.
Restorative justice can be used with varying programs at multiple stages of the criminal justice process. Please inform yourself on the options available to you before making a decision, as always it is best to consult a legal professional to fully understand the implications before you make a decision.
Most RJ programs are not equipped to deal with serious cases involving power inequalities, such as domestic violence. Some programs have developed partnerships with appropriate supporting agencies to offer RJ in some of these cases, but that is not the norm.
Many of the programs available through RJ require the voluntary participation of the offender and that they accept responsibility for their actions. Some, but not all programs, require the participation of victims. Programs can take place at different stages of the criminal justice process. For example, some programs may require the offender to plead guilty, others may take place after charges have been laid. Some initiatives take place after conviction, but before sentencing occurs (pre-sentence programs), while others take place after an offender has been sentenced (post-sentence programs).
Below is a list outlining different types of restorative programs available throughout Canada, as provided by the Correctional Service of Canada Dispute Resolution Unit.
Victim Offender Mediation Programs (VOMP)
Trained mediators bring victims and offenders together in a safe and structured setting to discuss the crime, its impact, and any agreement to address it. The offender is afforded opportunities to make apologies, provide information, and to develop reparative plans and gain insight for personal growth. More indirect variants also exist where there is instead an exchange of letters or videos between the victim and their offender.
Surrogate Victim/Offender Restorative Justice Dialogue
A victim or an offender may choose to meet with someone who committed a similar crime, or who was similarly victimized, instead of meeting with the specific offender or victim in his or her case. The surrogate victim/offender dialogue has proven beneficial to many victims who want to experience a restorative meeting, but who for whatever reason cannot bring themselves to meet the offender in their case.
Conferencing
The victim, the offender, their supporters, and community members work toward reparation, facilitated by an independent third party.
Victim Panels
A group of victims who speak to an offender about the impact that a crime has had on their lives. Victim-offender panels bring together victims with offenders who have committed a similar crime to that which they have experienced.
Circles
Similar to mediation, however they involve community members such as family in addition to the victim and offender.
Circles of Support and Accountability
Groups of volunteers, often from the faith communities, that form a “covenant” with a released high-risk sex offender. For its part, the Circle helps provide a healthy environment for the ex-offender by advocating with various systems, dialoging the ex-offender about his attitudes and behaviours, and mediating concerns with the community. The victim’s participation is not required.
Peacemaking Circles
Rooted in Aboriginal experience and tradition, this program is based on the belief that the primary responsibility for addressing the problems of crime lies in the community and not just with those directly impacted by the crime and their immediate families. These circles focus on trying to uncover the underlying problems, and to restore balance where possible.
Healing Circles
Ceremonies intend to bring conflict to a close, they allow the participants to express their feelings, and indicate that the offender and victim have undergone personal healing.
Sentencing Circles
The victim, offender, family, and community members, meet with a judge, lawyers, police, and others to recommend to the judge what type of sentence an offender should receive. The victim and the community have the opportunity to express themselves, address the offender, and may also take part in developing and implementing a plan relating to the offender’s sentence.
Community-Assisted Hearings/Releasing Circles
This is available to offenders who are indigenous. This process is similar to a parole hearing in that it occurs within the prison. It differs from a traditional hearing in that all of the participants, including members of the board, the offender, their parole officer, their support person, aboriginal elders from the community, the hearing assistant, and the victims (if they are present) sit in a circle for the purposes of the hearing.
Referral to RJ programs in Canada can occur at various entry points within the criminal justice system – pre-charge (referral by police), post-charge (crown), pre-sentence (courts), post-sentence (corrections), or pre-revocation (parole).
Accessing Services through the Restorative Opportunities (RO) Program is available to people harmed by the offence requesting to communicate with the offender who caused the harm. Services provided by the RO program are available to registered victims, victim representatives acting on behalf of registered victims, and non-registered victims impacted by the crime.
If you are interested in Restorative Opportunities, you may contact the Restorative Justice Division at 1-877-730-9673 or by email. You can also call CSC’s Victim Services Division toll-free at 1-866-806-2275, where the call will be directed to the appropriate Victim Services Officer.
A directory link to programs available in Canada is below.
Resources:
https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/rj-jr/sch-rch.aspx
https://www.sace.ca/learn/transformative-restorative-justice/
https://www.csc-scc.gc.ca/restorative-justice/003005-1000-eng.shtml
https://www.victimsfirst.gc.ca/res/pub/gfo-ore/pdf/RestorativeJustice.pdf
http://www.csc-scc.gc.ca/text/rj/crg-eng.shtml
http://www.rjlillooet.ca/documents/restjust.pdf
https://restorativejustice.org/rj-archive/restorative-justice-and-transformative-justice-definitions-and-debates/
Legal Disclaimer:
Our website provides general information that is intended, but not guaranteed, to be correct and up-to-date. The information is not presented as a source of legal advice. You should not rely, for legal advice, on statements or representations made within the website or by any externally referenced Internet sites. If you need legal advice upon which you intend to rely in the course of your legal affairs, consult a competent, independent attorney. Vesta Social Innovation Technologies does not assume any responsibility for actions or non-actions taken by people who have visited this site, and no one shall be entitled to a claim for detrimental reliance on any information provided or expressed.
Coping with traumatic events is never an easy process. Being able to heal and process difficult events such as sexual assault can be very painful and disturbing to do so. Many individuals try and find ways to prevent re-victimization and turn to self-defence to cope with the threat of potential sexual violence. They also use this as a method to protect themselves from future harm. Although talk-based therapy is evidently helpful for many survivors, it’s also important to consider how physical therapy such as self-defence training enables survivors to feel more empowered. Participating in this method of healing allows participants to learn and practice proactive responses to sexual assault threats and allows them to feel more confident about their surroundings.
A body of research has demonstrated that those who have experienced sexual assault and have decided to take part in self-defence lessons feel less afraid of their environments and have greater confidence tackling new situations. A research paper published in 1990 in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology describes the results of a study where 43 women participated in a Model Mugging program. The training had occurred over a period of 5 weeks, and 27% of the participants had experienced sexual violence in their past. Before the program, the authors reported that these women had lower self-efficacy coping with threats of all kinds. Moreover, they displayed more vulnerable behaviour and were generally more avoidant. However, over time, they learned how to exhibit confident behaviour and how to properly deal with unwanted encounters. This indicates that these women were better able to identify safe situations versus risky ones and how to appropriately handle them. It also demonstrates that this form of healing does have positive results and is an effective method to combat post-traumatic stress disorders and other forms of anxiety.
Another benefit of taking self-defence lessons includes the ability to understand one’s own triggers and different levels of tolerance. Often, when people get comfortable with self-defence, they may request certain situations to test their boundaries and learn more about how they can better protect themselves. They can re-enact past events and learn to tackle them, which gives them confidence to build their tolerance levels. Moreover, since these enactments are repeated and drilled into the survivors, their comfort and confidence levels also increase.
Finally, after events such as these occur, many survivors tend to blame themselves. They question what they could have done differently or what they should have done to protect themselves. Some tend to believe that it’s their fault. In reality, it’s not their fault. Events such as these can happen no matter what precautions one may take. One common theme from survivors is that after taking self-defence lessons, many individuals do feel at ease and describe themselves as being in a much better place.
On more of a personal note, in my own high school, we had someone who taught self-defence come in for a Grade 9 gym class. During that period, he taught us basic self-defence skills and provided some advice on how to tackle potentially dangerous situations. Although this was years ago, I remember feeling empowered and confident after learning new tactics that taught me to be aware of my surroundings. Although this was an isolated lesson and change doesn’t happen overnight, I remember feeling exhilarated and confident.
Self-defence has been researched and proven to assist survivors in mental and physical healing. If you’re struggling and looking for something to help you heal, self-defence could be for you.
Sources:
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1990-19731-001
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/sexual-assault-and-the-brain/201809/why-its-time-sexual-assault-self-defense-training
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2011-24476-018
Are you considering pursuing justice through the legal system but don’t know where to begin? You’re not alone. The legal justice system can be confusing and difficult to navigate. But there are services available that can help you by providing free, independent legal advice. Sometimes you just need to talk to a professional and know your options before going forward. Our Legal Aid section provides individually sourced legal services and specialized programs for survivors of domestic abuse, sexual assault, and other forms of violence. These services are available remotely or in-person based on region. If you have any questions, we encourage you to visit the websites provided to learn more.
Located in Oshawa, Ontario, Luke’s Place is a non-profit organization dedicated to the safety and protection of women and their children as they proceed through the family law process after fleeing an abusive relationship. They created the Virtual Legal Clinic, which provides free legal advice to women in Ontario who have been subjected to intimate partner violence.
The clinic uses web-based video conferencing or the phone calls to connect women to directly to lawyers. If you are a self-identified woman in Ontario aged 16 years and older, you can use the clinic if you:
Do you know of any free legal services for survivors of gender-based violence? Let us know.
Legal Disclaimer:
Our website provides general information that is intended, but not guaranteed, to be correct and up-to-date. The information is not presented as a source of legal advice. You should not rely, for legal advice, on statements or representations made within the website or by any externally referenced Internet sites. If you need legal advice upon which you intend to rely in the course of your legal affairs, consult a competent, independent attorney. Vesta Social Innovation Technologies does not assume any responsibility for actions or non-actions taken by people who have visited this site, and no one shall be entitled to a claim for detrimental reliance on any information provided or expressed.
Are you considering pursuing justice through the legal system but don’t know where to begin? You’re not alone. The legal justice system can be confusing and difficult to navigate. But there are services available that can help you by providing free, independent legal advice. Sometimes you just need to talk to a professional and know your options before going forward. Our Legal Aid section provides individually sourced legal services and specialized programs for survivors of domestic abuse, sexual assault, and other forms of violence. These services are available remotely or in-person based on region. If you have any questions, we encourage you to visit the websites provided to learn more.
This organization provides free legal representation in family and immigration law to women in the Greater Toronto Area who experience physical, sexual, or psychological abuse. They deal with multiple legal issues that include spousal assault (domestic violence), adult sexual assault, childhood sexual abuse, family law, and immigration and refugee law.
With their help, survivors can:
Do you know of any free legal services for survivors of gender-based violence? Let us know.
Legal Disclaimer:
Our website provides general information that is intended, but not guaranteed, to be correct and up-to-date. The information is not presented as a source of legal advice. You should not rely, for legal advice, on statements or representations made within the website or by any externally referenced Internet sites. If you need legal advice upon which you intend to rely in the course of your legal affairs, consult a competent, independent attorney. Vesta Social Innovation Technologies does not assume any responsibility for actions or non-actions taken by people who have visited this site, and no one shall be entitled to a claim for detrimental reliance on any information provided or expressed.
Are you considering pursuing justice through the legal system but don’t know where to begin? You’re not alone. The legal justice system can be confusing and difficult to navigate. But there are services available that can help you by providing free, independent legal advice. Sometimes you just need to talk to a professional and know your options before going forward. Our Legal Aid section provides individually sourced legal services and specialized programs for survivors of domestic abuse, sexual assault, and other forms of violence. These services are available remotely or in-person based on region. If you have any questions, we encourage you to visit the websites provided to learn more.
Jared’s Place Legal Resource Centre is a Hamilton-based organization for women who have experienced domestic abuse and are currently navigating the legal system. Their Legal Advocate is available to provide support, information, advocacy, and referrals on a variety of legal topics. They can also assist in creating safety plans, preparing documents, and attending court and other legal appointments with women.
In addition to their many services, Jared’s place has partnered with Legal Aid Ontario to provide the following:
You can connect with the Women’s Centre of Hamilton & Jared’s Place Legal Advocacy Centre at (905)-522-0127 ext. 207.
Do you know of any free legal services for survivors of gender-based violence? Let us know.
Legal Disclaimer:
Our website provides general information that is intended, but not guaranteed, to be correct and up-to-date. The information is not presented as a source of legal advice. You should not rely, for legal advice, on statements or representations made within the website or by any externally referenced Internet sites. If you need legal advice upon which you intend to rely in the course of your legal affairs, consult a competent, independent attorney. Vesta Social Innovation Technologies does not assume any responsibility for actions or non-actions taken by people who have visited this site, and no one shall be entitled to a claim for detrimental reliance on any information provided or expressed.
Sexual assault is any non-consensual sexual activity, such as unwanted sexual grabbing, kissing, fondling as well as rape.
Sexual assault can be experienced by any gender, within domestic partnerships, friendships, or with strangers. A common misconception is that sex workers can’t be assaulted, but assault can happen to anyone, such as a sex trade worker by a client. Some examples of what sexual assault looks like include rape, sexual abuse, sexual harassment, stalking, indecent exposure, degrading sexual imagery, cyber harassment, trafficking or sexual exploitation.
Here are some examples of what real life sexual assault can look like:
“My husband wants to have sex when he comes home drunk, I tell him I’m not in the mood but he pressures me anyway. He doesn’t remember what he’s done in the morning so I don’t make a big deal out of it.”
“When I was underage my babysitter asked if I wanted to practice kissing.”
“I was working as an escort and one of my clients forced himself onto me. Even though I said no he said he thought I was just playing along to the role play.”
“I play for a college basketball team, when the coach is alone with me he grabs me in places that make me uncomfortable. He always waits until I am alone.”
Below are some definitions that can help identify how these experiences are characterized by Canada and the criminal code. This definition may vary in other countries like the United Kingdom, United States, and Australia. Please connect with local support if you are outside of Canada.
Rape: Any non-consensual penetration of the vagina or anus with any object or body part. Rape also includes penetration of the mouth with someones sexual organ without consent.
Sexual Exploitation: When a person in a position of trust or authority uses that power to start or attempt sexual activity with another person. It can be direct or indirect and may include touching, violence, coercion or the use of threats.
Voyeurism: The secret observation by any means or recording of any person for a sexual purpose, in circumstances where there is a reasonable expectation of privacy.
Cyber Harassment: The use of communication technologies such as the internet, social networking sites, websites, email and text messaging to repeatedly intimidate or harass others. This can include insulting or threatening emails, posts, spreading embarrassing or private photos online, and blackmailing an individual with private information.
Sexual Harassment: Defined by engaging in a course of unwelcome actions or words that are annoying, distressing or agitating to the person experiencing them. More than one event must take place for there to be a violation, however, depending on the circumstances, one incident could be significant or substantial enough to be sexual harassment.
The most common understanding of sexual harassment is conduct such as making passes, soliciting sexual favours, sexual touching, etc. However, the definition of sexual harassment also includes conduct that attack a person’s sexuality or conduct that is directed at a person because of their sex.
Generally, human rights law clearly recognizes that sexual harassment is often not about sexual desire or interest at all. In fact, it often involves hostility, rejection, and/or bullying of a sexual nature. Here are some examples of what sexual harassment can look like:
“At work, people comment on my sexual orientation and ask me inappropriate questions about what sex is like for me.”
“A friend of mine went through my phone and sent himself explicit photos of myself without my knowledge or consent.”
Consent is actively and verbally expressing that you are into a sexual activity with someone. You cannot give consent while you are sleeping, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Consent can be withdrawn at any time and you do not need to explain why.
“Consent is freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic and specific”.
The law requires that a person take reasonable steps to find out if the other person is consenting. If you didn’t say yes, it’s not consent.
Generally, the legal age of consent in Canada is 16, however there are varying ages of minority within each province. If you or someone you know is under 18 and experienced any form of sexual violence, it’s important to consult local support for help with your specific case.
The information below is a very brief guide to sexual violence as it pertains to individuals who are under age. Experiences involving minors may require additional support. This guide is meant for information only and does not replace legal advice.
In some situations, sexual activity with someone under the age of 18 is illegal. A person under 18 cannot consent to sexual activity if the other person has a relationship of trust or authority over them, or they are dependent on that person. Examples of people in positions of power can include teachers, a coach, babysitter, family member, religious leaders or doctors.
There are two exceptions to individuals under 16 who engage in sexual activity with someone close in age.
A young person 14 or 15 years of age can consent to sexual activity with someone less than 5 years older
A young person 12 or 13 years of age can consent to sexual activity with someone less than 2 years older.
These exceptions only apply if the older person is not in a position of authority or trust and there is no exploitation.
Children under the age of 12 can never legally consent to sexual activity.
There are specific offenses that only apply to minors. Remember that the definition of minors may vary according to province. The experience of the offenses below is considered sexual violence under the Criminal Code of Canada.
Invitation to sexual touching is inviting a child under the age of 16 to touch directly or indirectly, the body of any other person.
Sexual interference is touching a child under the age of 16, whether directly or indirectly, for a sexual purpose.
Providing sexually explicit material to a child is “grooming” a child using pornography in order to commit a sexual offense.
Grooming is the start of the sexual abuse process that involves building trust with a child, and the adults around them, in an effort to gain access to and control the child. This is a power play used to reduce the likelihood of the child disclosing details and increasing the likelihood the child will repeatedly return to the offender. Offenders groom adults around the child to make it easier to gain access to the child.
Luring a child is communicating with a young person using a computer in order to arrange or commit certain sexual offenses. Depending on the offense, the age of consent ranges from 16 to 18 years.
If you have experienced a sexual assault, please read through our Sexual Violence Survivor’s Handbook.
Sources:
https://www.cybertip.ca/en/child-sexual-abuse/grooming/?utm_campaign=sl&utm_term=/app/en/child_sexual_abuse-grooming
http://www.legal-info-legale.nb.ca/en/no_means_no
https://www.teensource.org/hookup/what-does-it-mean-ask-consent